Things to Know Before Your Child with Special Needs Turns 18

1. Understand the Big Picture of Transition 

Transitioning into adulthood isn’t a single event — it’s a phase that blends legal changes, services eligibility shifts, and life goals. 

• Many supports shift at age 18 — for example, school-based special education ends and adults must access services through adult systems. 

• Your young adult may become legally responsible for decisions, which can change how you’re involved — so planning ahead is key. 

  • Work, housing, health care, and social life all require planning long before graduation. 

2. Start Early With Employment & Career Goals 

Colorado’s Division of Vocational Rehabilitation (DVR) supports young people with disabilities to explore careers, build job skills, and find employment. DVR’s Youth & Transition Services start as early as age 15 and include job exploration, workplace readiness training, and work-based experiences. They also coordinate with schools on transition planning. 

• It’s helpful to connect with DVR before your child exits school — services are eligibility-based (different from school entitlement systems) and help lay the foundation for meaningful work. 

3. Housing & Community Living Options 

Finding stable, suitable living arrangements is one of the biggest concerns parents face: 

• Home & Community-Based Services (HCBS) through Medicaid — like the DD waiver — can support adults with ID with residential habilitation, day supports, and community engagement. These services are designed to help people live in their own homes or with family rather than institutions. 

• Colorado’s Regional Centers offer short-term, community-based residential settings and skill-building support, and help plan a transition back into community living.

• Local groups noted by families — such as Activity Options — provide day programs, residential services, and activities that build life skills and community connection for adults 18+. 

  • Note: Accessing waiver services or residential supports may involve long waitlists — so early connection to case managers and single-entry point agencies is important. 

4. Health & Crisis Support 

Denver has services tailored to individuals with I/DD and behavioral or mental health needs: 

• Denver START offers 24/7 crisis prevention and intervention for people with intellectual or developmental disabilities who are experiencing mental health crises — a resource that can be lifesaving for families during difficult moments. 

  • Transitioning from pediatric care to adult health care teams takes planning — resources about health transitions can help you prepare for that change. 

5. Local Advisory & Community Programs that Matter 

Denver’s IDDEAS Program (Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities Equitable Access to Services) funds local services and promotes inclusion, housing access, and community participation for residents with I/DD. Families can also get involved through the IDDEAS Advisory Council, where lived experience helps shape local I/DD priorities. 

• Being connected with local community initiatives — including inclusive arts programs, mentoring projects, and fitness or career training — helps your young adult build social networks and independence. 

6. Your Role as a Parent: Advocate & Planner 

Here’s what you can do now to support a successful transition: 

✔ Start early — Transition planning ideally begins years before graduation. ✔ Build a team — Include educators, DVR counselors, case managers, therapists, and your young adult. 

✔ Learn eligibility rules — Adult services are often eligibility-based, so understanding criteria and applications early helps avoid gaps.

✔ Explore legal planning — Discuss guardianship or decision-making supports with a professional if needed. 

Final Thoughts 

Transitioning into adulthood is a journey — one that’s unique for every young adult with special needs and/or an intellectual disability. But in Denver and across Colorado, families have options, resources, and communities ready to help. With knowledge, planning, and connections, you can help your young adult step into adulthood with confidence, support, and opportunities that reflect their strengths and dreams.